Thoughts of possessiveness come when there is fear of losing the loved one! It’s not because they don’t believe you, it’s because they don’t have faith on others who might take advantage of your sweetness.
Although water falls from a hill, it never thinks it had fallen, it raises to run as a river. Our glory in life is not falling but to raise at everyfall.
May be the God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when we finally meet the right person, we’ll know how to be grateful for that gift!