Arguments may make you win the situations but not the hearts. So next time you indulge in it, before going any further just ask what’s more impotant: the situation or the person.
When it rains all the birds fly for shelter but eagle alone avoids the rain by flying above the clouds. Their problem is the same but their attitude differs!
Don’t make life’s critical decision on the basis of your mood. A mood is a dangerous state of mind because it can crush reason under the weight of feeling.