Finding love is like finding shoes. People prefer the party shoes to daily wear, but they always turn out to be happy with the ones they feel comfortable at all times i.e., daily wear.
How can you tell the rain not to fall when clouds exist? How can you tell the leaves not to fall when the wind exists? How can you tell me not to fall in love when you exist?
Love many things, for therein lies the true strength, and whosoever loves much performs much, and can accomplish much, and what is done in love is done well.