Do not only be close with someone who makes you happy. Be close with someone who cannot be happy without you. It makes a lot difference to him at least.
Thoughts of possessiveness come when there is fear of losing the loved one! It’s not because they don’t believe you, it’s because they don’t have faith on others who might take advantage of your sweetness.
Great people like us operate on the principle of rockets…. Not that we aim for the sky but until and unless our ass is on fire, we are not going to work.