Life gives answers in three ways. It says YES and gives you what you want. It says NO and gives you something better. It says WAIT and gives you the best in its own time.
Layman: How does one make beautiful idols from stone? Artist: Idols are already there. One just removes the unwanted stones. Happiness is hidden, just remove Worries!
When it rains all the birds fly for shelter but eagle alone avoids the rain by flying above the clouds. Their problem is the same but their attitude differs!