A Stone is broken by the last stroke of Hammer. This doesn’t mean that the 1st Stroke is useless. Success is the result of continuous and persistent effort!
Thoughts of possessiveness come when there is fear of losing the loved one! It’s not because they don’t believe you, it’s because they don’t have faith on others who might take advantage of your sweetness.
When one gives up temptation and greed, blessings, contentment and happiness abound. More paths open up that pave way for a good life with supportive friends!